A song in memory of a loved one

There's a particular moment after a loss. People have gone home, the flowers have been put away, and you stand in the kitchen looking at their cup — still in the same place. You want to say something. Only there's no one to say it to, and the words won't come.

A memorial song isn't meant to replace grief. It's a place where memories can live — and where you can return when you miss them.

When people order such a song

• for a memorial service or the anniversary of a loss;
• for a family gathering where everyone remembers together;
• as a personal farewell — just for you;
• as a gift for someone who is grieving — a parent, a friend, a child. If you want to support someone through a hard time, see also a song of support.

What to tell us

Write calmly and as much as you can. There's no right way and no “enough”.

• who they were — their character, their habits, the words they said every day;
• one memory that keeps coming back — an ordinary day, a holiday, a place;
• what you didn't get to say — thank you, forgive me, I love you;
• what remains — a smile, a lesson, a way of doing things.

If writing is hard, tell us briefly and leave the rest to us. We write with respect and care — without needless pathos and without words that aren't yours.

Does it have to be sad?

Not necessarily. Some families want a quiet ballad. Others want a bright song that celebrates a life, because “he wouldn't want us to cry”. Choose the mood you feel, or “Leave to Paliva”. In “Music wishes” you can mention an instrument or a song the person loved.

Sometimes a poem fits better — for a quiet ceremony, a card or a photo album.

Important dates

If the song is for a memorial or an anniversary, put the date in your order. We'll tell you right away whether the timing is possible; when an express order is offered, you can choose it.

Memories don't fade when we sing them.

Order a memorial song